IMVU and virtual sex

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After being invited to a chat session on IMVU, with my oldest son, I decided to do a little investigating on my own.
I have learned one thing...keep your kids off of this site, and unless you like being "flamed" on a regular basis, don't go on yourself.
This chat site is equal to a Web cancer, it is horrible.
The site lures you in with its game play feel, and then you are systematically assaulted in every way to purchase this, and that.I was able to resist, it was difficult for me, and for kids,(especially teens) its an all absorbing torture of the mind, with enough money, they can have virtual sex online!
I was shocked, and disgusted by the content on the average users page, it is unregulated filth.
Last Post Apr 21, 2012 1:53 AM by: Odai Abod
Odai Abod
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Re: IMVU and virtual sex

Apr 21, 2012 1:53 AM
Others would say IMVU is not just a site for cyber sex but is a way socializing and making friends. But we cannot control those who abused the purpose of social networking. So parents must take an extra effort/time talking to their children, giving out lessons and inculcate proper manner. Because cyber sex might haven't known if no one is allowing it. It is in proper disposition of one's personality that may lead to the benefit or failure of oneself.
cameliabrown1
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Re: IMVU and virtual sex

Apr 15, 2012 7:43 AM
Hmm I had been reading the post and also I do consent in a way. Whenever I initial joined up with in 2007 I didn't know precisely what I was in for. I thought it was actually gonna grow to be a fun thing and character play alongside individuals until I launched getting those pms from different people whom wanted to cyber. I simply replied little and left the place cause I wasn't really into every one of the that due to something that happened to me personally when I ended up being extremely young. After awhile individuals stopped pming me for sex. You can control which you speak to by putting your own reputation because Close friends Only, messages upon pals merely and. There is a significant ways you can keep your self and additionally your youngster safe from cybers. I do recall watch you child with regards to IMVU cause there are a significant typical individuals on here which do prefer to cyber, however if you nevertheless like to try to be buddy that person just tell them you aren't which type of person. You aren't curious. Like I said if your wanting to "CAN" control just what happens.
nick jones
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Apr 14, 2012 2:28 AM
Thanks for all this info on IMVU, i had no idea until i read some of these posts. Thanks
Tallupforyou
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Mar 23, 2012 4:03 AM
I am shocked about that it is a very bad site seen it did not play.
JohnHandle
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Mar 18, 2012 9:55 AM
yup, its not meant for kids --limit states 13 i think that scary being an adult there, adults bring the revenues, music, ideas, and adequate development. there's credit checks for age verification ...they used to have voice which helped this further, as foreign people have a harder time... but running skype in the backgrounds just fine. if your child's scandalous enough to rob a SS card and bank info to the point of aquiring said services...I'm very afraid imvu is the least of your worries...and as far as the term Evil goes..theres no such thing past the discovery of santa claus,... constantines common ppl were no more endentured servants keeping crime down and stopping rome from becoming the first south central LA as well as giving a "light" at the end of the tunnel so they'd never aspire for more and lose morale was nessisary. horus was the same in every way so evils a nonsense word.....Why, if that amoungst adults is evil...you wouldnt be here post expulsion pre-civilization pre-marital bonds having been done to bring forth your existance youd be condemned anyways so would i, if i knew everything i wouldnt even be mad about it but hey i drive my own iron chariot...reads chevrolet on the side so do me a favor ask for what yovile did... suggest a childrens server isolate them from me lest this ideaology be inflicted on da' masses

a game has an objective, a winner, a goal.....imvu is not that.
SnowingCandy
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Jan 27, 2012 5:11 AM
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SnowingCandy
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Jan 27, 2012 5:07 AM
I snowingcandy am a dev on imvu... for what ive seen most of you parntess allow your childern to go on it. You belive its evil but from i seen on imvu.it is doing a good job.the only way your teen are eather wanting to get a bf or gf for fake.
it is better then many other chata sits because if you look at secound life there is no such thing as ap.if yoyr child creats an acount on there they can see it all.. Imvu with out an ap not matter what ago you wil only see a defult shirt.
Imvu craks down on ga and ap dev..a dev on imvu will get disabled if they cant pay back the crds of someone that has bought something.i make ap things. picter mostly. but if your dum enofe to leave your cridt card out near you childern or teen and not
check every so often to see if they are using it on imvu.then its your own fault. i have been on imvu since i was 13. im now 18 and i wating for my ap like many should. most of the ap people dont us or buy ap stoff most do it cause they dont want to pay 76$ a mouth
to have rooms. And as for the slave thing. ROUNG!!!!!! THERE ARE NO SLAVES ON IMVU. they chose to be the person "slaves" they were collared or anything. this is just partness who dont like imvu just want it to get disabled. It makes it money hosntly just like facebook youtube and myspace
your stupid enofe to let your kids on thoses and not bicth when you can close to do the excate same thing. If you want to stop your littel kids from using it then just set your parnt lock.
IrishFoxSierra
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Jan 24, 2012 8:09 AM
Hmm I was reading the post and I do agree in a way. When I first joined in 2007 I didn't know what I was in for. I thought it was gonna be a fun thing and role play with people until I started getting those pms from different people who wanted to cyber. I simply said no and left the room cause I wasn't really into all that due to something that happened to me when I was very young. After awhile people stopped pming me for sex. You can control who you talk to by simply putting your status as Friends Only, messages on friends only as well. There is a lot of ways you can keep yourself and your child safe from cybers. I do recall watch you child when it comes to IMVU cause there are a lot of normal people on here who do like to cyber, but if you still want to be friend that person just tell them you aren't that type of person. You aren't interested. Like I said before you "CAN" control what happens.
snowo1
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Jan 6, 2012 3:06 PM
?:| I wish people would use there brains and keep young people off imvu, I love it but i am 53 and i have allot of friends on there, it is a good site for people older then 15, 16 .. i can say no yes or go to... but i can afford my own stuff and i can add friends or not... so use what God gave you and say no to kids,,,
Habbakuk
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Dec 26, 2011 9:41 PM
I think parents are overreacting. On one hand, the Internet is a dangerous place no matter which website, and if you are going to use it, don't be an idiot and be aware that these things happen.

On the other hand, parents making such a big deal out of these things will only make it worse. If the child is exposed early to sex or replica watches, parents treating it like it's a plague or something horrible will only harm the kid.

I was exposed to porn and other things on the Internet from around age 11. It was addiciting, even though I had no idea what replica watch or what I was experiencing at the time, it was fun. I turned out completely normal. But I think if my parents knew and rebuked me how horrible and terrible those rolex replica watches are and never to go online again, it would have make things turn out a lot difference.
Tiger Girl
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Re: IMVU and virtual sex

Dec 22, 2011 2:07 PM
I am a 13 year old, but I am to curious. And I say that these kinds of games, chats, or stories, bring a teen to something like addiction. As I said I am too curious. I found a program when there were stories like this, and I tried reading them. It was last year. It was like a drug. It was too hard to resist and it is addicting. And the scary part is that I was afraid to tell my mom, but when she did find out, we talked about it. It is in a child, his/her hormones, start acting wildly, and the child doesn't know what to do. All I say is that you have to look after your child very strictly, and...that's all.

*thinks about it a long time, then get's off the sofa on which she was standing, and walks away*

-Tiger Girl
ScandelousMusic
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Re: IMVU and virtual sex

Dec 20, 2011 9:36 PM
My name is Heather and I am 20 years old. I have had an IMVU account since I was about 16, give or take. Being an avid user of IMVU I am well aware of the content and I fully understand many parents fears about this chat software. It does contain alot of adult content, it is mostly unregulated, there are perverts, people who lie about their age and lots of other indiscriminate characters. However the fact of the matter remains that children are their parents responsibility.

In my opinion, there is no excuse for blaming IMVU when you allow your young children unrestricted access to the interent and not check up on them or ask what they are doing. To get access to the Adult Content, you must purchase AP (Access Pass). There are only a few ways to get AP and they all involve real money. Whether buying it online or getting a IMVU card from Walmart it still must be purchased. If you don't buy it, they can't access it.

As far as innapropriate chats, 18+ are not allowed in 17 and under rooms. And even if an adult impersonates a child (lies about their age on IMVU), your children have the ability and right to exit the chat room or Personal Chat and block that user. Simple as that. If they choose to stay in that inappropriate enviroment, knowing it is wrong, then you need to get on them. If you can't trust them, remove them from the internet.

They are your kids and your responsibility. If you do not want your kids accessing this software then block it. Put a password on your computer requiring administrative permission to download anything. That'll stop them in their tracks.

*gets off soap box* Okay, i'm done.
xRayvn
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Dec 14, 2011 9:05 AM
I'm 23 years old and been on IMVU since 2006 after my 18th birthday. And I have to say this. Yes, there are pricks on IMVU. Yes, there are perverted people on IMVU. But when I see a child on IMVU, and they reveal they are a child when I thought they are an adult, there is only two people I blame.

The parents.

If you don't want your child to go on IMVU, then don't let them. IMVU is for 13 years and up and anyone 13-17 need parent permission before making an account.

Don't give your credit card info to your kid. You just gave them access to AP if they lied to get on IMVU and say they are 18.

Again, monitor your children and you won't have to go through this crap.

Have your ISP block IMVU. Put parental blockers on IMVU and all sites connected to IMVU. Or better yet, don't let your kids on the internet til they are ready and you can trust them. IMVU can't monitor everything, specially all new accounts since so many people join everyday.

So don't blame IMVU for the negatives of bad parenting.
Lala1234
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Dec 3, 2011 1:59 PM
Let me start of by saying I have an IMVU account and have had one for the last 5 (?) years. I made my first one when I was 11 and have been playing it for a while now. Yes its going to be hypocritical of me to say this BUT GET YOUR KIDS OFF IMVU. If they are NOT the right age then they dont need to be on the site. Just because parents cant control their kids doesn't mean IMVU is an adult site. Yes, sometimes bad things happen or get leaked. Why blame IMVU when it's clearly not their fault.

Moral of the story: If your kids are still playing with barbies, Keep them off the internet.
RukiaKyuuketsuki
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Nov 21, 2011 9:41 PM
Okay, I've been on IMVU since it came out and I have had no problem. Yes, people do try to get you to cyber, but it's not the sites job to monitor when and if that happens. They don't have enough staff for that, It's the parents job to keep track of their child. Yes, there are offers to buy things on this site, but there are also FREE ways to get credits. You can even create products for others to use. Now there is something called AP(Access Pass) that you have to purchase to even view adult content and you must be 18 to even get it. IMVU isn't gonna teach anyone right from wrong. They expect the parents to do it. They are not there to babysit your kids either and as Nanadium said. You have to be 13 or older to even be on the site. I Role Play on the site myself and even have met some people worth talking to. And again as Nanadium said it is for people to connect to others around the world. IMVU is not a game it is an INSTANT MESSENGER with ADDED FEATURES. All websites have predators of all kinds. You can't stop that. IMVU can't keep track of every single thing because as I stated earlier, they don't have the staff for that. It's up to the user to do the right thing. There are block buttons and even a report button. So, if you don't want your kid on the site then take them off of it.
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