My husband has always said he only wanted boys and we have 4 children and he doesn't treat our daughter the same as the boys. The boys are ages 3, 4, and 5 and our daughter is 6. He has refused to spend time with her and is always taking the boys out everywhere. He went out Christmas shopping today and brought home about 30 toys for each of our boys and nothing for our daughter. She is always put on the back burner with him. I finally had enough and left today with our daughter. I don't want a divorce even though I told him I did I love him, and he loves our family, but how can I get him to love our daughter as much as he loves our boys

He spoils the boys ex) Christmas: Each one of our boys get about 50 gifts each, he buys them all, then he buys nothing for our daughter and I have to buy her stuff. I don't have a favorite child i love them all equal so I have to go out and buy 50 gifts for our daughter, because I have to make it so they all get the same amount of stuff but 50 gifts is way too much when I was a kid I was happy with 10. If we go to the mall or a store he buys the boys whatever the want or cry for, with our daughter its "Maybe Santa will get it" or "Maybe for your birthday" which he cant remember anyways! I'm really getting fed up with it, he has a great job and spends money like if he doesn't it will burn overnight, I work at a store and I;m trying to make our daughter happy with my small paycheck and I just cant Make it even

If I get the divorce I couldn't handle 4 kids, and I cant leave him Heartbroken, If he loses the boys he would be heartbroken, He protects them kids from everything

Other details that may help: Our daughter does realize this, she was born when we were both 18 and now hes 24 I'm 25

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