Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

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Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging
by Larry Magid

Blogging is great. Just be smart about what you share

(revised June, 2006)


Unlike the articles we write for parents and teachers, we don’t have to give you a course in blogging basics. As a teen, you’ve probably visited your share of blogs or “spaces,” and there’s a good chance you may have your own blog. If so, congratulations. Even adults like us who have some concerns about bloggers’ safety and privacy applaud the fact that teens are increasingly taking advantage of the Internet’s great communications tools. Millions of teenagers maintain their own blogs. In fact, a study done at Georgetown University shows that more than half of all blogs are maintained by people 13-19.

So let's talk about safety and privacy. As you know, when you're online you're out in public, and that's definitely true if you have a blog that's accessible to anyone on the Net. We don't need to tell you that there are creeps out there who might want to jeopardize your personal safety or steal your or your family's money. It's just a sad fact of life on the Net. Federal law-enforcement people confirm that online predators are very interested in teen blogging. That's why some of the blogging services have privacy features that let you control who can access your blog. And that's what this is about - giving you control. Check with your service to see what types of restrictions you can put on your blog and use them. In most cases it is possible to communicate with your friends or your friends' friends without having to open yourself up to the entire Internet.

One of the nice things about blogs is that you can post just about anything. But just because you can post anything doesn't mean you should. Remember, anything you post can not only be seen by others but can easily be copied and stored. So, what you post can be held against you. Something that seems very cool right now may not seem so cool two or three years from now, when you're sending around applications for schools or jobs. So think just a bit about your future before you post that incendiary comment or that inappropriate photo. Besides, what may seem appropriate or even funny to friends right now can be used against you when there are disagreements, breakups, etc. - in blogs, email, IMs, and even file-sharing networks.

As you know, people online are not always who they appear to be so be very careful about the type of relationship you establish or information you give to people you meet through your blog or blogs you visit. The same goes for in-person meetings. The fact is you just shouldn't meet people in person who you only know from the Internet. They may be great but you never really know, do you? If you do, make sure you do so in a public place and bring along at least one friend – the more and bigger the better. Your school's football team should do the job nicely. Never, ever, agree to meet someone alone. Seriously, you really need to be careful because you never really know who an online “friend” may actually be or what his or her intentions are.

You also need to be aware of your blogging service's rules or "terms of service." Violating them not only risks your getting kicked off the service but they're usually there for some good reasons: to protect you, to protect others and to keep you on the correct side of the law. Most of the rules are pretty obvious - don't send spam, don't distribute viruses and other harmful code, don't stalk, threaten or harass anyone and don't turn your blog into a porn site. While everyone in America - including teen bloggers -has First Amendment rights, you still need to be careful about what you say, especially about others. Being mean to other people is not only, well, mean, it can in some circumstances be illegal if you cross certain lines.

One last thing. You may not want to share your blog with your parents, but they do have some legal rights and obligations. We recommend that you do give them the web address of your blog and it's a very good idea to talk with them about what you're doing and reassure them that you understand basic safety and privacy rules. Not only can that make for peace in the family, but they might learn something along the way. Who knows? Maybe you'll learn something too.

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Edited by BlogSafety at 06/29/2006 6:30 PM
Last Post Sep 27, 2008 3:46 PM by: Anne
Anne
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Sep 27, 2008 3:46 PM
Thank you for posting, LATRECE. I'm not sure where you're getting this information, but it's not quite as bad as it suggests. I recommend that everybody who reads this check out this Fact Sheet from the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of N.H. They've studied the situation more than anybody. Tx again,
Anne
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LATRECE
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Sep 27, 2008 12:48 PM
BEING SAFE IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE WE HAVE RAPES AND PREDTORS OUT HERE THAT WILL TRY IN AND EVERYTHING TO LITTLE GIRLS .THEY DO NOT CARE WHAT AGE YOU ARE. SO SAFETY IS IMPORTANT NO MATTER WHAT
Maureen
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jul 29, 2008 11:28 AM
Welcome, AshesAlexander! Feel free to contribute to any thread, or post a new topic.

Maureen

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Maureen Kochan
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AshesAlexander
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jul 29, 2008 9:44 AM
Thanks for send me this letter, I want join Safely Forum to learn more about Web security technology.
Anne
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

May 2, 2008 5:27 AM
Hi, Parent. Thanks for posting. AIM, like all instant-messaging services, is usually used within school peer groups - in other words, among friends kids know in person - so it's usually pretty safe. There's nothing that's guaranteed 100% safe, so parents just need to decide what appropriate to their kids' maturity and trust levels and maybe set some boundaries. By the latter, I mean things like "only after your homework's finished" or "not after 9pm" and only in a common area of the house where parents can know if rules are being obeyed! I hope this helps. All best,
Anne
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Parent
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

May 2, 2008 5:22 AM
Does anyone have any thoughts on AIM accounts. Are they safe for teens? Are there any other recommended accounts for kids to blog with school mates?
Ha. Ashleyy.
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Mar 18, 2008 12:08 PM
I found these tips very helpful.
Agent Brooks
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Feb 7, 2008 12:51 AM
Are there circumstances where people feel that monitoring software is a good idea?


As a parent, and owner of a personal computer, you have a right to know what your child is accessing on your computer. For their protection, for your financial protection (identity theft and operating systems re-builds are not cheap).

As such, I feel that you are warranted to maintain monitoring software. However. A preferable method of doing business would be an pen policy of computing in the house. Keep computers in open locations, have only one family account on the computer, and for God's Sake know what your teenagers are doing online!

Teenage Boys especially. I couldn't count the number of [perfectly innocent grandmothers' computers I access (as a part of the Geek Squad's online support offering) only to find the most abhorrent things in history files, and cookies. Without asking "so how's that porn?" I frequently attempt to social engineer my way into data.

IE-"Who all uses this computer"

Obviously I am searching for a point of infection. and Teenagers browsing habits will typically lead me to what I am looking for.

So, to conclude, Yes, know what your kids do online...

No, think first before openly spying...

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Edited by Agent Brooks at 02/07/2008 12:53 AM
colegirl
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jan 31, 2008 7:37 AM
I agree totally about everything that is on this guide. and safe blogging is good too. be safe chatting and texting or IMing to ppl too.
woodstock
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jan 14, 2008 3:12 AM
Your going to hate me for this one. But I put in a contact about World of Warcraft, and now I can't find it. I searched all the forums, can you guys help me? I need to know about this game site as my son wants to play on it. His uncle played with him on it after his first deployment overseas. But, since then it has become a little to vitual for my taste. Am I becoming to over protective, or do I have something to really watch out for. Sorry about blogging in but I didn't see where else to go. You can bet me up now if you want too. Thanks anyway.
Anne
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jan 12, 2008 1:49 PM
Welcome to the forum, Loz. Did you want to say something about safety in social-networking? All best,
Anne
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Anne Collier
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Loz Vegus
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From: Ireland
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jan 12, 2008 1:45 PM
Hello??...!!
SHANTEL
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Nov 11, 2007 1:46 PM
LIKE PEOPLE SAY BE RESPECTFUL EACHOTHER
jjfighter1
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Oct 3, 2007 6:38 PM
Teens can be safe. They just need to not give out any personal information. And they also need to not talk to many strangers. Lastly, they need to tell their parents who they are talking to. It does little good to act more grownup than necessary. Taking precautions online comes with the idea that you tell your parents who you are communicating with online. There is a news video about a girl getting kidnapped in Florida at Abuse Laws Check it out -- Edited by jjfighter1 at 10/03/2007 6:39 PM
SuperMom123
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Re: Teens' Guide to Safe Blogging

Jun 29, 2006 6:28 PM
Are there circumstances where people feel that monitoring software is a good idea?
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